Welcome Your Emotions
"A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance." - Ecclesiastes 3:4
For a long time, society has taught us to see emotions as a weakness. As children, we were told to stop crying or to “fix your face.” As adults, we're told to “toughen up” or “never let them see you sweat.” These messages make us feel like emotions are something to be ashamed of. But the truth is, emotions are a gift from God, and they are meant to be welcomed, not repressed.
Think about how we often hear that real men shouldn’t cry or that showing emotion is a sign of weakness. But that’s a harmful lie. The Bible tells us that there’s a time for everything, including a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance. If God Himself created these times for us to express emotion, then why are we trying so hard to hide them?
Emotions are not evil. In fact, God Himself expresses emotions in Scripture—His anger at injustice, His sorrow for the brokenness of the world, and His joy in creation. Emotions allow us to connect deeply with others, to empathize, and even to praise God with gladness. Without emotions, how would we feel the joy of a new baby’s birth or the righteous anger that drives us to stand against injustice?
When we try to suppress or ignore our emotions, we create an emotional prison. This can lead to harmful behaviors, like lashing out in anger or turning to substances to numb the pain.
Instead of hiding from our emotions, we should be learning to understand and manage them in healthy ways. Emotional intelligence (being able to recognize, use, and manage our emotions) helps us relieve stress, communicate better, and deal with challenges in a Christ-centered way.
It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to be angry or sad. These emotions are a part of being human and welcoming them allows us to bring them under the leadership of Christ. By embracing your emotions, you allow God to transform them and use them for good in your life. So don’t push them away. Let them in, and let God work through them.
For a long time, society has taught us to see emotions as a weakness. As children, we were told to stop crying or to “fix your face.” As adults, we're told to “toughen up” or “never let them see you sweat.” These messages make us feel like emotions are something to be ashamed of. But the truth is, emotions are a gift from God, and they are meant to be welcomed, not repressed.
Think about how we often hear that real men shouldn’t cry or that showing emotion is a sign of weakness. But that’s a harmful lie. The Bible tells us that there’s a time for everything, including a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance. If God Himself created these times for us to express emotion, then why are we trying so hard to hide them?
Emotions are not evil. In fact, God Himself expresses emotions in Scripture—His anger at injustice, His sorrow for the brokenness of the world, and His joy in creation. Emotions allow us to connect deeply with others, to empathize, and even to praise God with gladness. Without emotions, how would we feel the joy of a new baby’s birth or the righteous anger that drives us to stand against injustice?
When we try to suppress or ignore our emotions, we create an emotional prison. This can lead to harmful behaviors, like lashing out in anger or turning to substances to numb the pain.
Instead of hiding from our emotions, we should be learning to understand and manage them in healthy ways. Emotional intelligence (being able to recognize, use, and manage our emotions) helps us relieve stress, communicate better, and deal with challenges in a Christ-centered way.
It’s okay to cry. It’s okay to be angry or sad. These emotions are a part of being human and welcoming them allows us to bring them under the leadership of Christ. By embracing your emotions, you allow God to transform them and use them for good in your life. So don’t push them away. Let them in, and let God work through them.
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