We Are Better Together
"Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up the other; but woe to one who is alone and falls and does not have another to help." - Ecclesiastes 4:9-10
The faith journey was never designed to be a solo project, and Scripture is remarkably consistent about it.
Moses had Aaron and Miriam. David had Jonathan. Ruth had Naomi. Paul traveled with Barnabas, then Silas, then a whole network of co-laborers whose names fill the end of his letters. Even Jesus, who needed nothing, called twelve people to walk beside him and sent them out two by two.
The pattern is not accidental. God works through community, and he has from the beginning.
There is something about doing this work alongside other people that changes you. It keeps you honest, because it is hard to drift when somebody knows you well enough to ask. It sustains you on the weeks you are ready to quit. And it multiplies what you could ever accomplish alone, because a group can carry weight that would break one person's back.
It also reflects something true about God, who has existed eternally in the community of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. We are relational because the one who made us is relational.
Even in Eden, before anything had gone wrong, God looked at one person standing alone and said that this was not good.
But the culture we live in pulls hard against this. We are trained toward self-sufficiency. Handle it yourself. Do not be a burden. Do not let anyone see the part of your life that is not working. And so we get very good at being around people and very bad at being known by them.
Look at what the writer of Ecclesiastes says happens then. Woe to the one who is alone and falls and has no one to help. Not woe to the one who falls, because everybody falls. Woe to the one who falls alone.
You might be saying, "Pastor, I have been burned by community before." Many of us have, and that wound is real. Do not let anyone rush you past it. But do not let it write the rest of your story either. The answer to a community that failed you is rarely no community. It is usually a truer one, entered slowly, with your eyes open.
Identify one person in your faith community you could go deeper with this month. Reach out this week. Be honest about where you actually are, not where you are supposed to be, and invite them to walk with you.
You were never meant to carry this by yourself. Let somebody in!
Prayer:
God, thank you for the gift of community. Help us invest in our relationships and build the kind of bonds that can hold weight. Give us the humility to ask for help and the faithfulness to be the help somebody else needs. Amen.
The faith journey was never designed to be a solo project, and Scripture is remarkably consistent about it.
Moses had Aaron and Miriam. David had Jonathan. Ruth had Naomi. Paul traveled with Barnabas, then Silas, then a whole network of co-laborers whose names fill the end of his letters. Even Jesus, who needed nothing, called twelve people to walk beside him and sent them out two by two.
The pattern is not accidental. God works through community, and he has from the beginning.
There is something about doing this work alongside other people that changes you. It keeps you honest, because it is hard to drift when somebody knows you well enough to ask. It sustains you on the weeks you are ready to quit. And it multiplies what you could ever accomplish alone, because a group can carry weight that would break one person's back.
It also reflects something true about God, who has existed eternally in the community of Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. We are relational because the one who made us is relational.
Even in Eden, before anything had gone wrong, God looked at one person standing alone and said that this was not good.
But the culture we live in pulls hard against this. We are trained toward self-sufficiency. Handle it yourself. Do not be a burden. Do not let anyone see the part of your life that is not working. And so we get very good at being around people and very bad at being known by them.
Look at what the writer of Ecclesiastes says happens then. Woe to the one who is alone and falls and has no one to help. Not woe to the one who falls, because everybody falls. Woe to the one who falls alone.
You might be saying, "Pastor, I have been burned by community before." Many of us have, and that wound is real. Do not let anyone rush you past it. But do not let it write the rest of your story either. The answer to a community that failed you is rarely no community. It is usually a truer one, entered slowly, with your eyes open.
Identify one person in your faith community you could go deeper with this month. Reach out this week. Be honest about where you actually are, not where you are supposed to be, and invite them to walk with you.
You were never meant to carry this by yourself. Let somebody in!
Prayer:
God, thank you for the gift of community. Help us invest in our relationships and build the kind of bonds that can hold weight. Give us the humility to ask for help and the faithfulness to be the help somebody else needs. Amen.
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